CHAPTER IV

LOVE, SYNERGY, AND THE MAGIC

 

 

Humanistic Sociology focuses specifically upon the recovery of love, magic, and the ''Good" and the application of these values to the social world.  We return to the age-old question: "How do we make the Good?"  The answer must be formed in the light of humanistic values themselves.  We must develop ways of framing our questions that avoid the traps outlined by Becker as "the escape from evil" and the denial approaches of the shadow and the hero.  We must seek answers which leave the humanistic experience intact and therefore, do not violate its basic grammar or spirit.  To do this, we must focus on the nature of the humanistic values of love, synergy, and the magical.  Unfortunately, we find little serious scholarship to guide us: 

 

It is amazing how little the empirical sciences have to offer on the subject of love. Particularly strange is the silence of the psychologists, for one might think that this is their particular obligation.

 

Sometimes, this merely sad or irritating, as in the case of textbooks of psychology and sociology...  More often, the situation becomes completely ludicrous.  One might reasonably expect that writers of serious treatises...should consider the subject of love to be a proper, even basic, part of their self-imposed task.  But I must report that no single one of the volumes on these subjects has any serious mention of the subject.  More often, the word 'love' is not even indexed.

 

I must confess that I understand this better now that I have undertaken the task myself.  It is an extraordinarily difficult subject to handle in any tradition.   It is triply so in the scientific tradition.  It is as if we were at the most advanced position in no man's land, at a point where the conventional techniques of orthodox psychological science are of very little use.

 

And yet our duty is clear.  We must understand love:  we must be able to teach it, to create it...or else the world is lost to hostility and suspicion.

 

Abraham Maslow (1953, pp. 57-58) [Italics Original]

 

 

And yet, with the exception of the work of Erich Fromm, little has changed since Maslow wrote these words.  Serious writers have chosen to study those things that fit easily into the scientific tradition.  They have not chosen to study love.  Knowledge has not been pressed to this frontier, partly because it challenges the very parameters of our present paradigm.

 

Love and magic are not amenable to the scientific method.  Becker (1973) argued that our whole culture and lifestyle has been constructed to provide a denial of death.  But the "denial of death" of which Becker spoke is but the tip of the iceberg.  The real taboo in our society is not the "denial of death" but the denial of mystery.  Most have systematically sought to eliminate anything which would suggest life to be miraculous or magical.  Love has been neglected as a subject for study because it subtly undermines the scientific tradition that has become our very world view.  In order to undertake a serious study of love, it was first necessary to unravel the nuances of that scientific world view.

 

However, even in Western cultures, the magical has not completely disappeared.  Utopian visions seem to re-open the child-like eyes of awe and wonder in all of us from time to time.  It may be a vision we have in the forest when time stands still and we realize that we have always had this dream -- as thoughts bubble to the surface and then are gone just as clouds passing by.  We talk of never going back, of making a change.

 

However, even in Western culture, the magical has not completely disappeared.  Utopian visions seem to re-open the child-like eyes of awe and wonder in all of us from time to time.  It may be a vision we have in the forest when time stands still and we realize that we have always had this dream -- as thoughts bubble to the surface and then are gone just as clouds passing by. We talk of never going back, of making a change.  It may be the insight of the poet who touches us in a way we had almost forgotten.

 

From time to time, the magic gets rekindled and we see life more as a miracle than as the cause and effect of science: we go through major life transitions and reach back for understanding and meaning.  Children are born and life awakens itself with fresh possibilities.  People we loved die and life again becomes such a fragile construction on this side of the veil.  Our lives change and who we thought we were are also changes.  We fall in love and the world is transformed down to our very perceptions.  We undergo a career change or a divorce or a cross-country move . . . and the world seems so different before we manage to snap it back in place.

 

. . . There are the experiences that Maslow might term "peak":  the "eurekas," the magical moments between new lovers or old friends, the milestones in our lives, and the experiences where the walls of the world fall before us and we are left with a moment of recognition as our life passes before us.  There are those sparks of inspiration which can only be called magical -- when we draw from that spring we term creativity.  And the times we find ourselves at the shoreline and pass beyond ourself.

 

Even in our very linear, scientific culture, the magic has not disappeared.  These experiences are the very foundation of meaning in our lives.  We seek to bring these experiences that we have in private spaces back to the larger world -- to somehow use them to change and remake that world.  Love and the magical experiences are the very essence of the humanistic vision.  It is from these experiences thatw e wish to create. Yet the larger culture, in its day-to-day activity, remains almost blind to the very existence of these humanistic values.  They are on the fringes of our culture, waiting to haunt us in our dreams and confront us in our crises.  Still, it seems the larger world does not listen. Yet an articulation is crucial.  Unless we can testify to them in public, they go unnoticed in the legislation of reality.  How do we make these experiences public and use them as a basis for shaping a common vision?  This is the focus of a humanistic sociology.

 

Ornstein (1968) told an interesting story to justify intuitive knowledge to rational scientists.  It works equally well here to illustrate this discussion of love and the magical.  Suppose, he said, there are two groups of scientists: one working during the day and the other during the night.  The ones at night keep reporting to the day shift about the stars that they have seen.  The day scientists refuse to leave the confines of their daily world, but they do agree to explore the possibility. Using all their equipment, they search the sky.  At times, they even look through the same telescopes and in the same places -- but in the daytime.  Finally, they conclude that those seeing the stars are fools.

 

But the long legion of dreamers from Christ to William Blake are not fools. They are looking at a different time of day.  The current scientific apparatus does not fit their vision. Love and magic cannot be proven -- they do not do well when doubted, and repeated testing only tests them out of existence.  They do not appear in mock or artificial settings. And it seems that they only occur when we are involved in life, not as armchair speculations or outgrowths of contrived settings.  The time of day the mystics do their seeing is that hour when you feel your own mortality and at the same time see the beauty and wonder of the world. 

 

Love and magic are not instruments.  They do not lend themselves to prediction and control which is the basis of scientific power.  They do not come with "handles" that allow them to be turned into technologies.  Fromm (1956) noted in The Art of Loving that most of what we say we know about life has been achieved by rendering things dead and then performing autopsies on them.   We know much less about living bodies because they do not fit our analytical dissection.  Love and magic cannot be laid bare by the analysis of the structure and function of organs and skeletal frames. They resemble more the breath of life itself.

 

Science was supposed to be a salvation: a Tower of Babel up to the heavens.  Knowledge is power, maintained Francis Bacon.  Knowledge has to be tamed into power;  but in its would-be heroic quest, science's methods resemble more the harpoon of Captain Ahab than the light of truth.  We are in danger of stabbing life to death in order to grasp it.  Love and magic speak of a different kind of power that does not need to be tamed or framed by analysis.  And yet it is crucial we develop a way of talking about love and magic that affords their public recognition in the construction of the world.  Just because love and the magical cannot be framed by the scientific approach, it does not mean that we cannot talk about them.  Such a dialog is essential if we are going to develop a paradigm that will supplant the normal scientific order of things. 

 

It was Whorf (1956) who argued we must develop ways of communicating that overcome the strict scientific assumptions contained in our very conceptions of what "thought" is.  He felt that science had mistaken the grammar and syntax of Western language, with its subject-predicate/actor-object/cause-effect bias, for the world.  He envisioned a new language which might transpose the confines of Aristotelian logic to the multiplicities of the dreamer. 

 

This is also the basis of much of Jungian psychology (Jung, 1964).  Jung said that the crucial problem of our age is the recovery of the intuitive, ''feminine" aspects of self and culture.  Rationality and our "Tower of Babel" word-abstractions have advanced so far that we  neglected and left behind the intuitive, non-rational aspects of self. The intuitive and the "feminine" must now advance and "catch up" with the rational, scientific world we have created.  The advance and development of the intuitive must then supplant our description and way of talking about the world.  If Science and Western culture at this stage ere to advance without recovering the intuitive, then it would leave behind the person and the self.  

 

C. Wright Mills (1959) in The Sociological Imagination made the distinction between ''rationality" and "reason."  Rationality is mistaking a method of thinking (i.e., the scientific method) for thinking itself.  It is categorical but does not produce reason.  Reason is the ability to -think; it is not dependent on an a priori method of thought.  Freedom involves the self's capacity to make judgments based on experience.  It is not a pre-determined pattern, but the emergence of insight. In our   age, we have mistakenly assumed a parallel between rationality and r reason, when in fact they are opposite poles.  To forego allegiance to the scientific method does not mean that we have abandoned thinking and reason.

 

If we are to develop a paradigm of humanistic values,  we must not allow a method of thought to dictate our thinking.  To study love and the magical -- which is the essence of the humanistic conception of man --we must find ways of approaching our task that are consistent with our subject.  To re-vision society in ways that will promote humanistic values, we must re-order our theory of the social world.  We must not make love and the magical fit our methods, but construct methods that accommodate love and magic.   Our knowledge of love and the magical is in such a poor state of affairs precisely because the human disciplines have chosen to model themselves after science.  We have forgotten that science is opposed to these values at its very core. 

 

As was argued in the second chapter, the history of Western thought has been a movement away from knowledge strategies that embrace "the Good" and towards strategies which seek to find "the truth."  The scientific approach has gradually obscured love from view -- especially as a practical path in the world.  Intuitively it makes a great deal of sense to talk about love as a "reverse image" of science.  While it is probably important not to carry this metaphor too far, it does provide an interesting starting point for an articulation of a love paradigm. 

 

As discussed science has five major characteristics:

 

1.  Objectivity, Detachment

2.  Doubt, Testing

3.  Power, Prediction, Control

4.  Experimental, Artificial

5.  Value free.

 

                       One can begin to develop a love paradigm by extrapolating a dialectic with science:

 

Objectivity, Detachment -- Love is a collapse of boundaries; an "entering into."  It is an involvement:  an interaction where ''I" and "not-I" intermingle and meet.  Love takes place on this shifting boundary back and forth.

 

Doubt, Testing -- Love is based on trust, belief, and faith. It is not satisfied with what "is," it is a commitment that even if love is found lacking, to create it.

 

Power, Prediction, Control -- Love involves "letting go" and surrendering to an outcome.  It hopes and seeks to influence, and yet it is unexpectable, unobligated, and uncontrolled.  It resembles the "free gift" of grace.  For love to enter, ego must recede.

 

Experimental, Artificial -- While love is playful, it is not artificial or experimental.  It involves entering into the moment in full reality,

 

Value-free -- We are as far from the value free approach as possible.  Love is the heart of meaning.

 

Love does not fit the scientific dynamic.  It is magical.  Love at its core is akin to the earlier tradition of magic.  Love is not part of the scientific paradigm, but of the magical view of reality.  The use of the work "magic" might be criticized by those who feel that it might threaten the credibility of the humanistic enterprise.  Yet  have not chosen the word "magic" lightly.  despite the false allusions and the difficulties it encounters, magic is precisely the right word.   Science declared war against magic; and it was precisely the "magical view" of reality that science has historically sought to replace.

 

Roszak (1975) showed how science specifically sought to move from a sacred basis of culture to a secular one.  This moved culture from a foundation of myth, magic, and mystery to one emphasizing history, technology, and reason.  With scientific reality, 

 

. . . in place of myth, we have history. In place of magic, technology. In place of mystery, reason. Here, then, we have a second, inverted triangle -- a profane triangle whose orientation is toward the Earth and away from transcendent experience . . . .  The transformation is blunt and bold:  one Reality Principle knocking its predecessor for a loop . . .  the great reversal has been the total secularization of culture in mind and deed -- certainly the most potent, daring, and original project of modern times, as well as the most distinctive historical contribution of Western society (Roszak, 1975, pp. 159-160).  [Italics Original]

 

It was the mystical conception of reality that science wished to sweep from view.  If we want to view love and magic as more than just curious appendages to the scientific reality, then it is necessary to re-open the old schism between science and humanistic values.  This is particularly true because science has a tendency to circumscribe our humanistic efforts:  re-package them to use as technologies for its own advance.  There is no appreciation for the fact that by such a process something crucial is lost.  What is lost is the humanistic ethos!  This is nowhere more evident than with many of the new techniques for personal and social transformation that have emerged from popular psychology.  Suddenly, we have a science interested in the functions of the "right side of the brain."  It is as if science had suddenly realized it had forgotten to appropriate a number of items to its vision.

 

We have what might be called the territorialization of the right side of the brain.  The traditional sciences now move in haste to quicken the maturity of the "immature" social sciences.  Science seeks to circumscribe these right brain (i.e. intuitive) functions and turn them into technologies.  The scientific strategy has been merely to inscribe the new "right-brain" technologies into the scientific vision and then return to business as usual, the realization that these "technologies" contain a grammar and syntax drastically different from the scientific paradigm goes unnoticed.  Much of the impetus behind each particular technique is quickly diffuse and routinized.  The skin of science grows over the schism leaving a scar.  And in our day, little of the scientific covering remains unscarred.

 

 

 

Technologies of Love and Magic